Monday, January 12, 2004

Junius is at the nursing home.

Dad and I helped Jay get his dad to the nursing home today - well, the disabled van drivers drove him. We followed up with two cars - his, and one to get back in so he could ride with his dad. The doctors have said its probably only a few more days (so why not just leave him in the hospital, right? The question on everyone’s mind). Knowing my work schedule over the next few days, this was probably the last time I’ll see him on this earth, so I said my goodbyes and prayed with him. Jay is staying with him 24/7 at this point so he won’t be alone. Mr. Stone seems more relaxed now that he’s in the home rather than the hospital, so that’s a huge plus. I’m glad I can remember his laugh - and the way his eyes would light up at a good joke, his enthusiams for sports (especially basketball), and especially the love he has for his son. And I’m glad he still knows people - gives a wink and a hand squeeze to his friends! I’ve heard some great stories over the last few days - especially from former caddies who remembered how great he was to them. I will miss seeing him at the concerts - he always told me how much he liked my voice (I think its because he could actually hear me, but I won't look a gift horse in the mouth.) And he loved - loves it - when Jay teases me or I tease him. And how his laugh builds until it fills the whole room and you can't help laughing with him.

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